Dont Judge Me , If ....

Don't judge me,
If I can't start interesting conversations with you ,
Don't judge me ,
If I am a bit different ,
Don't judge me,
If I am not as expressive as i appear to be ,
Don't judge me,
If I  have more fear than you can imagine ,
Don't judge me,
If I am cynical of human beings,
Don't judge me,
If I cant show how happy i am ,
Don't judge me,
If my preferences are different,
Don't judge me,
If i agree with a lot of what you say ,
Don't judge me,
If i try taking the initiative .
Don't judge me ,
If i don't seem as adventurous as you are,
Don't judge me,
Because of the assumption of what you have about me,
Don't judge me ,
Because of the choices i have made,
Don't judge me ,
Because of the experiences i've had in my life.
Don't judge me ,
Because i don't seem to be like other woman of my generation.
Don't judge me,
Because i don't care how the society judges me for what i am,
Don't judge me,
Because material comforts are not the crux of my life.
Don't judge me,
If you can't share your chocolate fudge with me ! Amen

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