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Don't judge me, If I can't start interesting conversations with you , Don't judge me , If I am a bit different , Don't judge me, If I am not as expressive as i appear to be , Don't judge me, If I  have more fear than you can imagine , Don't judge me, If I am cynical of human beings, Don't judge me, If I cant show how happy i am , Don't judge me, If my preferences are different, Don't judge me, If i agree with a lot of what you say , Don't judge me, If i try taking the initiative . Don't judge me , If i don't seem as adventurous as you are, Don't judge me, Because of the assumption of what you have about me, Don't judge me , Because of the choices i have made, Don't judge me , Because of the experiences i've had in my life. Don't judge me , Because i don't seem to be like other woman of my generation. Don't judge me, Because i don't care how the society judges me for what i am,...

Being Independent is the most misunderstood word by many ! People relate financial independence to being independent. It is very sad to see many educated working women considering themselves independent just because, they are working and earning. How many really are capable of managing self? How many can do their household chores? How many can cook for themselves? How many can take financial decisions themselves in a relationship? How many can take a personal decision for themselves in a relationship? It is very sad to see how boys seek out for an independent girl in a marriage only to take an upper hand in the life's most important decisions? Finally equality  comes down to a girl just contributing financially in a relationship and that's what a guy needs. Independent enough to earn for themselves and dependent enough to let the guy make the major decisions. I am no feminist. I don't demand equality because i don't feel women are inferior to men in the firs...

Har koi hai mera pehchaan, Baaton mein chup hoti nahi yeh zubaan, Samajtha hai dil har koi hain mere saath, Kyunki dimaag mein hai har ek ki baath, Dil khush hoti hain har mehfil mein, Ki koi humhe nahin chondenge har mushkil mein, Nasamaj dil ko kaise samjhayen, Ki yeh sirf hai uski aashayen, Arey mera dil, har koi nahi banta ek shaayar, Par Mat ban jaa tu ek kaayar, Tu nahin hai ek albela, Sacchi tu sirf hai akela! - Madhumita Sundaresan

Being a blogger who isn't frequent in writing posts, some kind of inspiration comes from things around me. Of late i have been so obsessed with Quora. Whenever amma sees me, i am so engrossed writing answers in quora. Lol.. Those are such platforms which makes us feel like an psychologist or a relationship expert. Just fill the bio and give your gyan there. More than writing answers, i am so awed by the kind of questions being asked there. " I am having an extra marital relationship is it right/wrong? " " I am ashamed of my Indian identity and i wanna bring up my son as an American. Is it morally wrong? "  " How to divorce my wife, who is having an affair with 3 guys simultaneously. I am a businessman from Chennai. " God, certain questions are scary, it's better not to answer such questions . So i just read through such questions and answers and move to the next one, I have been quite active in giving gyan about arranged marriage related one...