Realization...

A blog after so long..... Most of us haven really understood or realized what do we exactly want in life... or from life.... There are 2 sets of ppl ...... one - who don really bother but wanna follow something or somebody to be perfect... 2nd who believe why should they abide rules.. why should they follow somebody they'll have their own set of rules and own definition of life.... we cant call the former a follower or the latter a leader.....

There are few very important things in the society.... which we shouldn't forget in the process of realizing or living a life.... like values.... moral values.... Doesn't matter whether u follow or set ur own rules... forgetting that proves a disaster to our own lives ... :) another is contentment .... which is directly proportional to happiness... u follow someone.. u r content and u r happy...  y bother to create ur own identity?if u r content with ur own rules why should u follow somebody?

Problems and confusions start only when u don't live for yourself .... u don have to prove anything to anyone by following somebody or something or setting own rules.... Only when we buy a Rolex to show off to others pinches our pockets.. :) Am sure when you really think of buying a watch for seeing the time .... ull end up as the happiest person on earth with that 150 rupees made in china watch ..... There are lotta people who must understand that people who live their lives seeing others are not losers cos many do follow the Good aspects of others too... and those who live their life with their own rules aren't arrogant chipmunks!!

When parents complain that their children have become adamant and are asking things what their friends have and compare themselves with their supposedly higher status friends... While forgetting that they're the ones who have inculcated the habit of comparison ...They are the ones who keep comparing their kids with the other kids when it comes to exams and marks.... Then how can they blame their children for comparing for the material stuffs between them?? Values starts at home... confusions start at home.... Parents are the fire kindlers .....:) Parents should be spanked in this issue hahaha ;)

Prioritizing Helps in realization..... When we are sure of what is most and least important in life... Acceptance , realization and happiness follows....The concept of GOD was introduced to human beings to inculcate good values through their stories..... To spread goodness everywhere....but the concept is lost.... Either ppl don believe GOD or the purpose of believing GOD is lost due to their methodology of belief.... Where are we going in our life??Are we happy? do we really know what we want in life? Do we live for our-self?
      Realization remains like a train moving forward without stopping in any station...

Comments

Anonymous said…
lot of my confsusion is cleared.Much more sorted out than mine..lol
Anonymous said…
awesome... comes to the bottom line of all problems.. we can actually be happy if we accept what ever happens to us, and realize that what we have is always what we deserve and what we want out of life is nothing but happiness, laughter and a good memory to remember the good times until we leave this planet.. This rarely happens!
Anonymous said…
very truee..!! well said... finally all values are inculcated from our parents only.. so its the duty of the parents to teach proper values..but nowadays..v dun find ppl who kno values..esp well educated ppl only forget values.. dono wher we r going.??!

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