young age homes???

This is the first blog am writin... thought i wud take up this issue which i happend 2 notice recently... infact its bcum a new business r a trend i can say... yeah lemme not drag it... am talkin bout d increasin f day care centres in d city ... the very concept bout those centres makes me feel so sad.. 3 month old kids r dropd der... every parent has startd workin n startd luvin t more than family cuz f d money they earn der.. am not sayin they r money minded ... but do they realize that their priorities have slowly started to deviate???yeah they earn oly for their kids.. to make them more comfortable n giv dem d best things... but no amount of money can replace the security n love a parent can giv a child by spendin time wit them esp wen they r very young... wat values wil these childerenlearn bout relationships n family... kids r dropped before they r awake n r pickd up aftr they r asleep... a parent becomes a santa claus figure they see oly on sundays... whr r v goin?so wen these kids grow up,they wud return the favour to their parents by puttin them in d best old age homes .... wen there r so many ppl arguing about old age homes don u feel day care centres r nuthin but young age homes....??? old ppl live their life n r put into those homes but these children start their life in these homes ... if this situation increases,dun u feel the kids'll feel their parents r uncles n aunties who spend their time wit them durin weekends??yeah money s necessary for life... but not at d cost f their child's life ... such children will start thinkin money is the oly necessity of life n evry human or a kid be grow up to be selfish.... where r v headin to?? dunno if i shud lauf at the parents behaviour or cry for the kids condition...

Comments

mythreyi said…
good post madhu.. u have taken up a very serious issue in ur very first post!
but i think u should reduce the shortforms u r using..
preethi said…
ya i completely agree wit ya.It has indeed become a trend for the parents to leave their children in d day care centers.most of the parents dont understand the its impact on the kids.they say a mother s the childs first teacher.therefore it must be seen that the kids spend enouf time with their parents until a certain age.
hey awesome post! :)
but def try to avoid short forms pls. :D
Harry... said…
ahem !! wat made u rite bout this??well,tas how de worlds gonna bcum like in a few decades!!!
Madhumitha said…
good post mad!! the reason for this to happen is not just money but also ignorance...i.e., not knowing wht it is to spend time wit family!! the problem is everybody wants to lead a comfortable life and as a result both mom and dad work accumulating wealth. but there r families which bridge the gap between money nad relations really well!! the best solution for this could be neighbourhood counselling...nothing gets on our head like our own frd advicing us!!
mind blogger said…
I think you have mistaken the concept of day care...
You are right, to live a comfortable life, we need the vitamin M.But i would disagree the fact that parents leave their kids all thru the day at child care centres.Infact these are the kids who are too young to be put in kindergarden which are accomodated. Lets see how you manage your kids when you get married.
vidya said…
maddy..i hav to first applaud ur effort to plunge in2 a thought provoking issue:)) good. But being a woman and who is looking to be a career woman in future..i wld say the concept of say care centre is welcomin so long as the kids are taken care of well cos they not only make sure they are safe but kids get to see a variety of faces and emotions at an early age..and this is goin to help them ..world is changing da,,like it or not we hav to put them n track early..and we r always there at home to love them ryte? And staying awy for sometime never reduces the intensity of love will it;0) ?!
Krithika said…
hey u've now started blogging!!congrats madhu!
guess who? :O
ZX12R said…
hey...sorry for d late feed back...about ur blog-indha maarilaam pesina poruppaana ponnunnu yaaravadhu solvangannu ninathaya..?lol..anyways...it is a very good try..but i would feel more comfortable if u can attach a dictionary for ur short forms...:)
Nazgul said…
just another passerby who happened to stumble upon ur blog.. nice topic and wish u write more..
Unknown said…
hey first time to your blog!that was a real post! and i have also been thinking about a solution to this trend!maybe taking up part time jobs or work with flexible timings might help!

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